Past the breaking waves

Ever since Cindy and I split up in 2021 I have been going through rough waters as far as relationships go. Hell if I am being honest the 2-3 years prior to that split with Cindy were no picnic either. I have been on a roller coaster that I just did not seem to be able to get off of for most of that time. I made plenty of mistakes and bad decisions during that time period that contributed to those situations.

One consistent theme has always been being mostly involved with people where there always seemed to be a large inequity of effort. I also found myself involved with individuals that were selfish, materialistic, liars, mentally unstable or needed saving in one way or another. Apparently that is my “type” based on my track record of the last 15 years or so. I don’t have the time or desire to dig into exactly why that is here but I can tell you it is a recipe for not being happy or at peace within a relationship.

Finally in 2025 I have found that peace in a relationship. When I was younger I thought there were a bunch of things needed in a partner to be happy but at the ripe age of 57 I have simplified it down to one thing. Treat that person like you would want to be treated. If they reflect that back onto you, you have a foundation to build upon. If that is missing you will never find true peace and happiness, in my opinion. I feel appreciative and fortunate nowadays. My only wish is I could have done so many years prior.

Last night I washed the Tesla. It was very dirty. It’s dark blue color looks good when clean but shows dirt very easily. I should wash it more than a once a month I suppose. This weekend has no milestone events on the calendar. I am awaiting the arrival of truly moderate weather to tackle a few outdoor projects around the house. As long as my body feels up to it I hope to get a pickleball session thrown in the mix as well.